Rewrite your own rulebook

If you ask someone else to write it, it will be probably be full of 'shoulds' which are not helpful to you. Nor what you want to be/do/have
Today marks the day that two years ago I officially started to rewrite my own rule book. 
I now work less but earn more. 
I am less stressed and more passionate. 
I have more family time and time at home. 
That's not to say I don't work odd hours sometimes. Or feel like my to do list is never ending. Or to feel like I have enough sleep or me time. 
Of course it is all a work in progress. 
But my question for you is what rules do you need to add or erase? 
I can help. Please don't think there isn't way for you... or that it only happens to other people. Not true.